# 答复志杰关于渴望被体贴关爱的问题

导游哥哥，我有一个问题：渴望被人体贴、关心和爱护是心中缺少爱的体现吗？要怎样去超越这种渴求呢？——志杰草

答：渴望被人体贴、关心和爱护是人之常情，也是天性使然，与心中是否缺少或充盈爱没有直接关系，缺少爱的人渴望被人体贴关爱，爱充溢心灵的人同样也渴望被人体贴关爱。

适时地对体贴关爱的渴望造就一个人美妙的心境，“我住长江头，君住长江尾，日日思君不见君，共饮长江水”是一种对爱的憧憬渴望，“人有悲欢离合，月有阴晴圆缺，此事古难全。但愿人长久，千里共婵娟”也同样是一种对爱的向往渴望。

只是在人间，难以找到美满的关爱，自古情爱伤别离，从来悲欢不离情。“花自飘零水自流，一种相思，两处闲愁。此情无计可消除，才下眉头，却上心头。”渴望被人体贴关爱总给人茶饭不思辗转反侧思绪万千，是一种凄美的情绪，“问君能有几多愁，恰似一江春水向东流”，“关关雎鸠恨悠悠”啊！

几多相思，几多忧愁，多少憧憬，多少渴望，终因悲欢离合付之东流，消得人憔悴，唯有愁绪满心头，几番伤心，几番悲情，化为烟云飘去，人间啊！“不堪回首月明中”。

所以要长大，要自洽，要前往千年界、万年界、仙岛群岛洲，那里，“长亭外，古道边，芳草碧连天”，知音满庭院，相知处处见，纵使在天涯，在海角，情满山川，爱涛溢心田。

2010/5/12


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